The High-Performer's Playbook: My Morning and Evening Routines for Dominating Your Day
Mar 16, 2025
Key Takeaways:
1. Morning routines don’t need to be long—they need to be consistent.
Start your day with light exposure, hydration, and movement to set circadian rhythm and metabolic tone.
2. Evenings are for downshifting, not cramming in more.
Avoid screens, late meals, and high-stimulus activities. Calm your nervous system to prepare for deep recovery.
3. Sleep isn’t passive—it’s strategic recovery.
Poor sleep crushes energy and hormonal health. Protect it like your business depends on it—because it does.
4. Caffeine timing makes or breaks your energy curve.
Wait 60–90 minutes after waking. Early caffeine blunts natural cortisol rise and leads to crashes.
5. Simple routines outperform ‘biohacks.’
Forget the cold plunge arms race. Master the basics—sun, protein, movement, wind-down rituals—and you’ll beat 99% of people.
The war for your day is won or lost before 7:00 AM.
Imagine a Formula 1 pit stop - a whirlwind of precise, intentional, high-stakes action that sets the car up for victory. Now, compare that to how you probably wake up: rolling over, grabbing your phone, and mainlining a digital avalanche of outrage, notifications, and other people’s emergencies. You then stumble toward coffee, already behind, wondering why your energy is trash by 10 AM and your focus is shot.
If your first 30 minutes are reactive chaos, the rest of your day is just damage control.
This isn't about creating a perfect, Instagram-worthy morning. This is about leverage. What you do in the bookends of your day - the first 30 minutes and the last 60 - sets the entire trajectory for your nervous system, your metabolism, and your mental clarity. For anyone over 40, juggling a career and trying to shed stubborn body fat, these routines aren't new-age fluff. They are the non-negotiable control mechanisms for high performance.
The Metabolic Ignition Sequence: How I Build a High-Performance Morning
A "morning routine" sounds soft. I call it a Metabolic Ignition Sequence. It's a series of non-negotiable habits designed to deliberately activate your circadian rhythm, reset your cortisol curve, improve insulin sensitivity, and prime your brain for focus.
Here's the science, made simple. Exposing your eyes to morning sunlight triggers a cascade of hormones, including a healthy cortisol spike that tells your body and brain, "The day has begun." It’s nature’s alarm clock. Movement circulates blood and improves how your cells utilize glucose. Hydration restores what you lost overnight. A high-protein breakfast regulates your appetite for hours.
This isn't just a routine; it's an identity ritual. It’s the moment you decide whether you will be a passive recipient of the day's chaos or the deliberate architect of your own state. The high-performers I coach don't just feel better when they nail this - they outperform everyone else.
My protocol is ruthlessly simple and built for people with no time to waste:
Wake Without Snooze. The snooze button creates sleep inertia - a neurological fog that makes you dumber and groggier. Get up on the first alarm. No exceptions.
Light Before Screen. Before you touch your phone, get 10-15 minutes of natural sunlight in your eyes. This is the master switch for your entire circadian clock. It’s more powerful than any cup of coffee.
Hydrate with Electrolytes. You wake up dehydrated. I have my clients drink 500ml of water with a pinch of high-quality sea salt and a squeeze of lemon to replenish electrolytes and get their system online.
Move Your Body for 10 Minutes. This isn't a workout. It's activation. A brisk walk, mobility drills, or 10 minutes of bodyweight squats and push-ups. This spikes dopamine and tells your muscles it's time to work.
Delay Caffeine for 90 Minutes. Let your body's natural cortisol rhythm peak on its own. Drinking coffee immediately upon waking blunts this natural peak and sets you up for an afternoon crash. Wait 90 minutes.
Prioritize Protein. If you eat breakfast, it must be protein-anchored. Aim for 30-40g. This stabilizes blood sugar and crushes cravings. If you fast, do it with intent - not as an excuse to under-eat and binge later.
You don't have to do all six perfectly. But executing just three of these will put you lightyears ahead of the competition sleepwalking through their mornings.
The Shutdown Sequence: How to Land the Plane and Win the Night
Your evening routine is the secret weapon. If mornings are about activation, nights are about a controlled deactivation. Think of it like landing a multi-million dollar aircraft. You don't just cut the engines and hope for the best. You follow a precise sequence to descend smoothly, ensuring a safe landing. Most people's evenings are a crash landing - going from a late-night email to scrolling Instagram in bed - and they wonder why their sleep is a wreck.
Here’s my Shutdown Sequence for deep, restorative sleep:
Enforce a Screen Cutoff. The blue light from your phone, tablet, and TV actively blocks the production of melatonin, your primary sleep hormone. My rule is simple: no screens 60-90 minutes before bed. Read a book. Talk to your partner. Listen to a podcast. Anything but a screen.
Time Your Last Meal. Your digestive system needs to rest, too. Eating a large meal right before bed spikes insulin, raises your core body temperature, and forces your body to focus on digestion instead of repair. Finish your last meal 2-3 hours before you get in bed.
Lower Your Core Temperature. A drop in body temperature is a powerful trigger for sleep. A warm shower or bath an hour before bed (which cools you down as you dry off) or keeping your bedroom cool (around 17-19°C or 63-66°F) can dramatically improve your deep sleep.
Perform a "Mind Dump." Anxiety is often just a list of unprocessed tasks. Before you wind down, take five minutes to write down everything on your mind - your to-do list for tomorrow, worries, ideas. Get it out of your head and onto paper so your brain doesn't try to solve it at 2 AM.
Supplement Strategically. A high-quality magnesium supplement (like glycinate or L-threonate) can be a game-changer for relaxing the nervous system. This isn't a sleeping pill; it's a mineral that most stressed people are deficient in.
Sleep isn't just about hours; it's about architecture. These rituals build the architecture for the kind of deep, restorative sleep that allows you to actually recover, build muscle, and burn fat.
But My Life is Chaos... Routines Don't Work for Me
This is the most common objection I hear, and it's fundamentally wrong. The more chaotic your life is, the more you need non-negotiable routines. They are the anchors in your storm.
My approach respects your reality. You will have late nights. You will travel. Your kids will get sick. Perfection is a fantasy. The goal is not a perfect streak; it's establishing a default mode that you can fall back on 80% of the time.
On a crazy day, maybe your morning routine is just 10 minutes of sunlight and a glass of salt water. Maybe your evening routine is just no screens 30 minutes before bed. That's fine. It's infinitely better than nothing. You don't need two hours. You need 20-30 minutes of deliberate action at the start and end of your day.
Final Word: Stop Relying on Willpower. Build a System.
The difference between people who thrive and people who merely survive isn't their level of willpower. It’s the quality of their systems. When your mornings and evenings are anchored, your biology becomes predictable. Your metabolism starts working for you, your energy stabilizes, and your sleep stops being a nightly gamble.
This is the compound interest of high-performance living. It’s not glamorous. It’s not sexy. But it works. And when you do it for four weeks, you don’t just feel better. You become a different person.
High performance starts before breakfast and is locked in before you go to bed. It’s time to design your day, or the world will design it for you.